I know I should have handled that better, but she was driving me crazy and I couldn't take it.

Last time I grounded him it worked. But this time it isn't working. Now what do I do?

There ARE answers to these questions (and to all the other drive you crazy situations)...

And the answers come from YOU...

With the help of the Mean Moms Club and the

Mean Moms Coaching Program!

Join the wait list for the upcoming program!

Click on the links below or scroll to learn how.

• What is the Mean Moms Club?
• What is the Mean Moms Coaching Program?
• What makes the Mean Moms Coaching Program unique?
• How does the Mean Moms Coaching Program work?
• Join the Mean Moms Coaching Program!

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What is the Mean Moms Coaching Program?

Why do you find yourself asking the questions above, or the many other questions we as moms ask ourselves? You do that because you are constantly trying to figure out what to do, to react in the moment to situations as they come up. You do that because:

You don't have a plan!

Why do you need a plan?

When you have a solid plan:

• You stop second guessing yourself when you react to a situation
• You know ahead of time how you’ll react so you can take the emotions out of it

Emotions tend to force us to react in stronger ways than necessary or to back down from what we know is the right direction to take. A good mean mom steps back from the emotions and consistently enforces the rules because the plan is in place. When that happens, the kids have no ammunition with which to fight back, and guess what…

you win!

How do you create a plan when every day is different?

Yes, every day is different in the drive you crazy situations that come up. It is safe to say that in parenting, there is never a dull day!

But some things are always the same:

• Your family's values
• Your goals for your kids
• Kids' need for safety and security in order to feel loved and to grow

These things become the foundation of your plan. The only way a plan can be successful is if it is based on your own family, not on someone else's idea of how you should raise your kids or what your goals for them should be. The Mean Moms Coaching Program teaches you to create your own plan based on this foundation.

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What makes the Mean Moms Coaching Program unique?

What makes this program unique is the fact that it is based on YOUR family, therefore each plan is as individual as each family!

What the program does NOT do:

If you are looking for the following, this is not for you.

The Mean Mom Coaching Program will NOT:

• Tell you what to say to your kids in every situation (you're going to decide that for yourself)
• Turn your kids into perfect little angels with the wave of a magic wand (sorry!)
• Make your husband/significant other bring you flowers more often or take you out more often (although those might actually become side benefits because life at home will be smoother and you'll be under less stress)

What the program DOES do:

If you are looking for a way to become a take charge mom who knows ahead of time how to respond to situations, based on your family's values and style, this is your program.

The Mean Mom Coaching Program will:

• Replace the emotional reactions we tend to base our decisions on with rational responses that are consistent and fit the situation
• Provide the structure to create your own plan based on the seven foundational rules of the book
• Relate your family values and goals to each of those rules so you can decide how best to deal with the situations
• Cover each of the seven foundational rules in a separate segment so you can focus on that specific facet of the plan
• Pull it all together at the end by using the information in each segment to create a total plan that you can rely on no matter what particular drive you crazy thing your kids are doing on any given day, or at any given moment!

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How does the Mean Moms Coaching Program work?

Foundation?

The foundation of the coaching program is the book Mean Moms Club: The Moms Rule Book. The coaching program is based on the seven rules laid out in the book. Each addresses an issue that you as a family need to decide how to handle and how to enforce.

Your plan will incorporate these rules:

1. I'm going to be the perfect mom...yeah, right (learning to be realistic)
2. You'll always be my baby...no matter how old you are (developmental milestones)
3. Common sense... makes sense (safety and security above all else)
4. I brought you into this world...and I can take you out (discipline and teaching)
5. There's a difference between need and want...and I'll tell you which it is (learning cooperation and compassion)
6. I get to be president...of the mean moms club (consistently reinforcing the plan)
7. I know my kid... better than anyone knows my kid (working with other authorities)

Planning guide

A planning guide is provided as part of the program. This guide is divided into segments, one for each rule, and a final segment that will pull all the segments together into a comprehensive plan you can follow every day.

Your plan is created over a seven month period, each month working through the associated rule. The planning guide helps you to:

• Understand the rule
• Link the rule to your family's values and style
• Determine how you will use the rule to deal with situations that come up every day

Additional benefits

Along with the coaching program planning guide, other benefits include:

• Book Mean Moms Club: The Moms Rule Book
• Support of other moms through the Mean Moms Club Blog
• Email support from the President of the Mean Moms Club
• Conference calls to get questions answered and share ideas

Schedule

This is a coaching program, not a one time, buy it now, product. You are creating a plan that will become your foundation for the rest of your parenting days. This takes time to work through and discuss with your family.

Upon joining the Mean Moms Coaching Program, you will receive the first segment of the planning guide and the book Mean Moms Club: The Moms Rule Book.

Once a month after that, you will receive each of the next segments to complete

Once a month a conference call will be offered to review the segment and answer questions to help you complete your planning guide.

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• Mean Moms Club: The Moms Rule Book free. You pay only the $3.99 shipping.
• Planning guide segment on montly basis.
• Email support from the President of the Mean Moms Club for questions.
• Support and networking with other mean moms through the Mean Moms Blog (and an opportunity to earn an "I'm a Mean Mom" certificate).

Pay the monthly membership fee of $39.95 and receive:

• Cancel at any time during the membership. Cancellation, of course, will prevent you from receiving the entire set of planning guides that you'll need to complete your plan.
• Planning guide segment on a monthly basis.
• Purchase the Mean Moms Club: The Moms Rule Book ($15 + $3.99 shipping) separately.
• Email support from the President of the Mean Moms club for questions.
• Support and networking with other mean moms through the Mean Moms Blog (and an opportunity to earn an "I'm a Mean Mom" certificate).

****Add a monthly one hour support conference call, a value of $200, for $99.95 and receive:

• Direct contact with the President of the Mean Moms Club to get answers to your questions
• Sharing of ideas with other moms on the call
• Schedule of calls at beginning of membership program so you can plan ahead to attend